2014-08-10 │送给那些渐行渐远的朋友……

作者:逍遥乾坤 | 发表时间:2014-08-10 08:02:32 | 分类:感想小记 | 阅读:8220 | 评论:3605


忽然间想起老朋友,就习惯性的打开空间,然而上面显示:“抱歉,该空
间仅对主人指定的人开放”我顿时愣了!随后,却又淡然了。
有些人,总是会慢慢的淡出你的世界,慢慢的在你的记忆里模糊。
因为时间,
因为距离,
因为没有联系?
QQ上,清一色的手机挂着,我隐身着,你看不见;你隐身着,我亦看不见。很多人宁愿找些陌生人或者不熟悉的人聊天,也不愿意和以前的好朋友聊天。
因为,不知道要聊什么,也不知道从何聊起??时间长了,渐渐的,疏远了,陌生了。
虽然曾经彼此之间很熟悉,
但是现在却多了一层隔阂。
QQ上见面只剩下一个简单的“最近好吗?”“恩,还好,就那样”,然后,然后就没有下文了。
很多时候都是开着QQ,看着那么多的朋友在线,却只会对着屏幕发呆,因为不知道说什么。
多长时间没和朋友们发短信了?多长时间没和朋友们打电话了?又多长时间没约上几个好友出来聚聚了?
偶尔发条短信息,也是逢年过节的时候,问候一下,祝福一下。
有些人,我们彼此相遇,相识,相知,一起哭过笑过,然而还是不能逃过离别的结果。
这些人,是我们心底真真正正承认的朋友,然而,离别之后,还是会逐渐联系减少。
或说君子之交淡如水,可是,若是曾经习惯了腻在一起,这,岂不又是渐行渐远?
然而更多的人,注定就是相遇,相识,在欲知未知的状态下就擦肩而过。
尽管会在类似于同学录的东西上记下彼此的各种信息,
还会写下“一辈子的朋友”“友谊长青”等字眼,可是,当若干年后,翻起相册,似乎还是会挖空心思的想这个人是谁。
能想起或想不起,这一切似乎都与自己的生活无关。
而能够坚持长期联系下去且感觉不变的,便是不可多得的人生知己。
回忆自己记事以来的十几年,
似乎心底,还总是有那小学时最好的朋友的影子,是我那时心中确定的唯一的“人生知己”,可是与我现有的生活,似乎早已无关。
我早已不是当初的我,性格完全不同了?
有时还需要不确定地问一句:你是xxx吗?初中。高中。都有这样的她或他。
是什么?让大家越来越疏远了。
是什么?让大家越来越淡漠了?
是什么?让曾经彼此之间很要好的朋友,
如今即使见了面也没有什么话说了?
时间、距离、没有联系??是感情最可怕的敌人!
时间久了,感情会变淡。距离长了,感情会疏远!这是真真切切的?
还记得曾经的好友吗?
他们现在还好吗?这些年来,过得顺畅吗?
现在怎样了?找到另一半了吗?
改变成什么样子了?还有着以前那些爱好吗?
还是像以前那样喜欢这喜欢那吗?
对于他的这些,你都知道吗?
这一切,只怕已经离你很远了吧!
是不是要随着年月的流逝然后一个个的渐行远去,
才会发现身边早已没有他们的踪迹。
到那时是不是会难过,原来我把朋友丢了。
抑或风轻云淡的一笑抑或满脸无谓的接着过自己的生活,为自己的以后着急。
亲爱的朋友们,我们曾说天长地久。原来誓言是可以轻易的忘记的;原来感情是会淡的;
原来我们也被冲散了,原来我们走着走着就丢了彼此,都落在了岁月的洪荒中人的一生,将会认识多少人啊!小学,初中,高中,各个阶段,各个时期,似乎陪我们走过的总不是同一群人。
一直知道自己是个怀旧的人,可是自己却总是让身边的某些人越走越远。偶然接电话,听到老友的声音,我竟一时有种想哭的感觉,曾经几时,我们已没有想起彼此,所幸我们一直都记着彼

此。
友谊长存,不会因时间距离而变化。不知道是不是真的。
好久好久没联系的老朋友们,我们都有自己的生活,或许我们也好久没有想起彼此了,但是,我们都要记得曾经的美好时光,并相信,在今后渐行渐远的路上,还会有更多的人与我们由陌生

到相知,一起度过更多的美好时光。虽然还是会有离别,但希望大家,想起彼此的时候,再给自己会心一笑。
渐行渐远的老朋友们,谢谢你们曾经陪我走过,我曾经很幸福,希望你们在以后的道路上能够顺利的走下去。
——送给那些渐渐远离的朋友。

 

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by:无意中看到了这篇文章,很符合现在的心境,所以就转载了。
在信息时代飞速发展的今天,人与人之间的沟通越来越方便,却懒惰了人们的心性。我们总是朝着“完美人”的方向发展,不愿让别人了解自己更多,不愿暴露自己的缺点在阳光下,把自己包裹在一个自我感觉不会受到任何伤害的小环境里。这样的继续,让人们感到了莫名 的距离……
无论何时何地,过去的现在、以后的将来,只要我们用心过好每一天,问心无愧的对待每一人,多少年后回想起曾经的她(他),那么我们都可以很美好的面带微笑!

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