2017/10/14 │看了老梁的《特别会说话》小感……

作者:逍遥乾坤 | 发表时间:2017/10/14 23:09:05 | 分类:感想小记 | 阅读:1244 | 评论:250

 

鬼使神差的就买了这本书,可能是因为网购凑满额吧。
我是属于特别不会说话的。原因自己分析主要是性格造成的,性格缺陷太大,尤其是具有强烈的唐山人固有的批判主义精神和家庭环境影响造成的孤傲特点。再加上情商不高,就诞生了不受人待见的我。虽然自我感觉良好,却也明白得罪人的时候不少。
综上所述,其实,我还是挺需要这类书籍的,属于中国式“丈母娘”结婚买房,刚需~
对老梁,一直不太了解。偶然看到过几期不记得名字的节目,除了觉得他长的太老以外没别的感触。只是最近随着读了两位主持人的书,渐渐的对所有主持人所著都很感兴趣,所以还是一点点翻阅起来。其中也不乏有些许的触动,甚至启示!
比如,《山楂树之恋》、《杜拉拉升职记》的有声版演播者张蕾所说:希望一直保有对世界的好奇,对疼痛、快乐真切的感知,对爱的感知。她还说:犹豫要不要做的事一定要去做,犹豫要不要去的地方一定要去。因为当酒窝都长出皱纹的时候,也剩下不了多少时间可以去犹豫了。看到这段话,正巧自己脸上有一个酒窝,触动了我日益见长的皱纹侵蚀的酒窝渐渐变小。

看这本书的前面我都没有看懂书的抒写方式,直到看过一半有余,才渐渐的明白了文章架构,可能是我急于读懂,忽略了目录。就像这个浮躁时代的并发症,先入为主,观点先行,缺乏逻辑和预案。总是喜欢快速的简单粗暴,没有人愿意打深入的持久战。

我是一个有很多瑕疵的人,虽然我愿意一生追求完美。但却不可能成为完美的人,可我仍然愿意向着美好前进。努力成为一个会说话的人,就像和顶级的说话高手一样娓娓道来,闲聊天,祛浮躁,静心气,触灵魂,长见识,不单单有方法和技巧,更有一颗纯粹的心!

人生不光是一场旅程,更是一场修行!

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